Day by day we feel nothing changes, but when we look back everything is different.Life never failed to surprise me with changes.I always used to feel that all the things that I had in life were perfect.I never imagined life without them.But as time passed I threw some,lost some,grabbed some,nourished some,loved some,hated some but then one thing that never stopped was my life-It moved on.
When i had most of those that I lost or threw I thought survival without them was impossible be it gadgets,toys, friends or family. I always thought it is very necessary for me to hold all of these only until i realised a fact that "hello..!! I lived even when these things were never there in my life , so why cry over them" instead it was easier either to find replacements or to take little pains enough and remember what we did before they came in.
But i don't regret or cry on any of these things that broke, or were lost , as down the line these were the building block of my own self. They helped me grow, they indeed help me realise my inner strength and capabilities.They help me prove to my own self how strong a girl I was.
And luckily for me every change came in with a new beginning, a whole new world to explore to learn to live in.There was enough to keep me busy all the time, as if not busy my mind would travel places it should not have and would take me back to times where i never want to go , everything would flash back in my eyes and when I would open them the only thing left would be tears.Many times in life crying over the lost things and missed opportunities and while rubbing our eyes or wiping tears we fail to see all the new ones that approach us. Its only when we will understand this one statement completely we will be able to live a happier life - "NOTHING IS CONSTANT EXCEPT FOR CHANGES".
The sooner we accept it the happier we are.
If our age changes every year,
If seasons change every 3 months,
If dates changes everyday,
If day and night change every 12 hours,
If time changes every second
If people change in a fraction of sec,
Than why do U want to remain the same always... ??
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ReplyDeletei just checked ur comment in the mail @dorbes donasky nd i m greatful tht u read the article and gave such a lovely response ..dnt knw y u deleted it here :P
ReplyDeletethnx.. i wasnt sure what would be your response.. i thought it would not be fine..but your comment has encouraged me to repost.. here it is.
DeleteI would put it differently, as said by a great thinker.. “The only constant thing in this world is 'change'”.. your views get reflected in this.... sometimes change brings us good, sometimes not.. some changes are man-made, some are natural..
ReplyDeletea change brought by an act of god is never bad … because whatever he does he does it for the best. But when it is man-made and the result of a change is not favourable, we curse ourself and ask why we did it, was it so necessary, how should I go about it now.. the life prior to such a change pinches us when the situation is irreversible.. then also I would say it is nothing but a lesson from god to make us understand better about life that god has given a thought and created an environment for everybody which we should not disturb. if we do, we should see unhappiness .... that also we overcome by passage of time and everything seems normal and as you said, life moves on, on and on.... to bring some more new changes, pleasant ones and unpleasant ones ..
my portfolio has got changed recently from office work to extensive tours.. I travel a lot these days.. whatever it is, I take it as an opportunity.. to see people, to visit places, to understand them.. life can be better understood from the people ..who work down to dusk.. from the ones who are neglected... I have seen a mentally challenged man who travelled during our journey.. I have seen a mentally challenged woman also during my travel.. I was wondering how could I help them. But definitely I would do something for them..