is SORRY always enough ??

Sometimes i sit and wonder rather try to remember when did i learn to say this word "SORRY". I assume it was taught to me in school when i was a toddler and teachers would teach us that we must always use words like "sorry" and "thank you". If we ask any one the meaning of the word sorry then the immediate definition that we will get is that one word that we use in order to apologise after we make mistakes.But do you actually think that everything is the same after we say the word "sorry".

Imagine one word "sorry" is used by people even when they casually over step on someone's feet or drop water on someone and also when people break hearts, crush someone's dreams or hurt some , it sounds exactly like using a same "band aid" for a cut that we get by cutting vegetables and also for covering d wound of a gun shot :P :P i mean silly people are who just think that things become all right after they say sorry always..

Its high time we realise its just a word that we use to apologise for our mistakes, it not an UNDO button or a reset option that will just get things back to normal. Things get normal with time, with efforts, with truth and with love .But with the passing time this little word has lost its essence people just say it even when they don't mean it most of the times.

But yes still there are people who mean the sorry too..!!
But my question here is that will those 5 characters change what happened ??
Is it enough to forget what has happened ??
Is it enough to get over what is gone??

this article is definitely not complete its because I am still in two minds.I am questioning my mind
I still have a question ..."IS SORRY ALWAYS ENOUGH....????"

expectations ... !!!

I am sure this one word written above triggers your brain for once.Its because we all are humans we have expectations from ourselves, from things, from people..!!We say or we don't say but yes there are expectations.Some are fulfilled and some are not, some inspire us to take the next step forward and some which don't work out break us down sometimes..

Today when i was going though the updates on facebook I came across one such update which was "Never expect from anyone they will always let you down someday" and for a second i said to myself yes true indeed , its because our expectations don't end in fact our expectations go on increasing day by day the more the time passes the more we expect one after the other they keep on incrementing in a never ending loop as our mind is a real greedy animal.And then yes i was wondering about what i expect from people around me and what people expect me to do and so on ...!! This one thought took me to all d people who let me down or whom i had let down. 

And when all this was going on in my mind i come across another statement "I am proud of myself that i was worthy your expectations..!!" And another chill went through my veins and I went back , trying to recall all the thoughts that came to my mind when I had read that we should not expect and that's when i suddenly realised that we normally expect from people whom we think will complete our expectations ,for an eg my expectation from my best friend and a class mate will never be the same because I know that both fall in different categories. But at times what we all fail to understand is what the other person expects from us and thus some times even expression of expectation is very necessary as there is a possibility that the other person may never know what you wanted out of them.

We say we don't say we all expect , even if we consider the most basic relation on earth a child and his parents.A child will expect the best of everything from his parents be it games, school bag, pocket money, toys, laptops, mobiles etc. etc. etc....And in return even parents expect children to be well behaved, get good results, respect them etc. .

So after much a do .. i seriously think expecting is not a crime 

(ps. expecting from wrong entities is one :P)

ur words made my day ...:) :)

When I started writing this blog I thought I was putting up in black n white whatever I thought about life. I never had thought someday someone will come up to me and tell me that "Thank you for bringing back BOOKS into my life". I am honoured an excited with the though that yes my words could touch someone's heart. I had goosebumps and jumped with joy when I actually read my first fan message , it was a sudden rush that went through my body, I suddenly felt so good abut myself and its then when I realised "SOME WORDS CAN MAKE UR DAY :)"

Like a little kid who loves to read the "Very Good" by his teacher over and over again I don't remember how many times I read the same bunch of words with the same attention and concentration. (If i would have studied my books with the same concentration trust me I would have crammed the entire book so far and would get full marks in my exam which is not the case :P) And here I realised how sometimes just a few good words can bring a smile to someone's face, and how important it is to express your feeling or opinion to the other person and yes the pen is has more power than a sword.

I don't say that every word makes your day because there are times the same word from same people presented in a twisted form or another way break you .!! But at the end of it they make a better U ..:)

This actually is not an article I know , its a dedication to my most dedicated follower who in this word of today where people are running, took out their valuable time for me and tried to view life my way.
Thank You so much ...!!!
Lots of love :)

and sometimes its good to FIGHT

I know I might sound retard in the first place , you must be wondering has this writer gone crazy and wondering ….”HOW CAN IT BE GOOD TO FIGHT..???”

Normally whenever there is a fight we always think about all the bad things that happened, how someone hurt us with their words or how someone dint even speak up or how ego, attitude and thoughts clashed. And how it just becomes an end to d current relation or the beginning of a new cold war, but then if the other person does not come up and clarifies, and even we don’t feeling up and say like going sorry or clearing up matters. It’s the most perfect signal for us to realize the fact that either its over or it was an illusion.

But what I m talking about today is a completely opposite scenario of what I just mentioned above. We all know no two people on earth think alike, there is a possibility that we might have differences and even fights take place. For the time being anger frustration, ego, attitude and a combination of all just gets into our heads and we fight but after sometimes end up feeling disgusted about the same. And then we realize that no the person or the relation was much more important than the reason for the fight and we try to calm things down.

Trust me the same person who fights with you for sometimes and then after the whole fight is over comes up to you when you are sitting in despair and you see attempts being made to make things normal as they were. An inbox full of flowery messages, those calls to say sorry, that slightest attempt is always loved. And then the feeling of being special takes over everything in your mind and we end up feeling good about ourselves.

When the same person comes up to you and says they are sorry and what u mean to him/her the only thing that you will wish to do is let this thing go on in repeat mode. If fights end up with so much love then it’s seriously “good to fight sometimes.”

At least we come to know that who is ready to take up pains enough and get us back or who is so special for us that we put back out ego and go get them back. Because now I have understood that, “Things break for Better things to take place”.

And yes it’s not like this always, but yes I was talking about those some exceptional cases in life ..!!

on the THRESHOLD..!!

Life always plays this game with me, the minute I feel that yes it's finally ending I find myself on the threshold of something new again. And now I know that's how it is. Things always end for better things to start.

One after the other events follow each other like day follows night and death follows life. We don't implicitly start anything but yes things start and we stand on new beginning each day.

Many a times we are disheartened in life as we think that things ended, because there are some things, sometimes, some people we never want to let go of. But at the same time there are things we want to bring an end to, things which we want to get away from us, but most of which is destiny. Things only happen when they are destined to happen  :)

But in this Roller-Coaster journey called life I am very happy to have seen the beginnings. Being a typical girl in my mind I always over reacted to all d events that took place, for a spell of time I would just say to myself that my world has ended but with a hand crafted destiny from the almighty I found new things coming in an filling the void. There were times when I would question myself -What will I do once this was going to over? What will I do if this person left me? What will I do in after this? But the truth and the most funny part is that by the time it got over I was already into something new :P

By the time when we all grow up and start understanding the nuances of our life  we all on the threshold of teen age and it does come with hand-full of dreams. Once it ends we enter the most imp years , where we are adults and have new feeling that sense of being independent and responsible just comes to us .And in the same pattern the different stages of life just follow. From infants-toddlers-kids-teenagers-this chain just goes on till old age.

But what most of us fail to do in life is live the beginnings and feel the newness of the incoming things in life. Let them in with open hands and enjoy the feeling of how it is before it becomes a normal routine. And i promise if you will live the beginnings you will definitely enjoy till the ending. Not every beginning starts the way you want it to , but then it still a threshold of something new that is coming and that is one thing we can never change.

But practically -"Every END is a new BEGINNING"