Thursday, 10 May 2012

and sometimes its good to FIGHT


I know I might sound retard in the first place , you must be wondering has this writer gone crazy and wondering ….”HOW CAN IT BE GOOD TO FIGHT..???”

Normally whenever there is a fight we always think about all the bad things that happened, how someone hurt us with their words or how someone dint even speak up or how ego, attitude and thoughts clashed. And how it just becomes an end to d current relation or the beginning of a new cold war, but then if the other person does not come up and clarifies, and even we don’t feeling up and say like going sorry or clearing up matters. It’s the most perfect signal for us to realize the fact that either its over or it was an illusion.

But what I m talking about today is a completely opposite scenario of what I just mentioned above. We all know no two people on earth think alike, there is a possibility that we might have differences and even fights take place. For the time being anger frustration, ego, attitude and a combination of all just gets into our heads and we fight but after sometimes end up feeling disgusted about the same. And then we realize that no the person or the relation was much more important than the reason for the fight and we try to calm things down.
Trust me the same person who fights with you for sometimes and then after the whole fight is over comes up to you when you are sitting in despair and you see attempts being made to make things normal as they were. An inbox full of flowery messages, those calls to say sorry, that slightest attempt is always loved. And then the feeling of being special takes over everything in your mind and we end up feeling good about ourselves.
When the same person comes up to you and says they are sorry and what u mean to him/her the only thing that you will wish to do is let this thing go on in repeat mode. If fights end up with so much love then it’s seriously “good to fight sometimes.”
At least we come to know that who is ready to take up pains enough and get us back or who is so special for us that we put back out ego and go get them back. Because now I have understood that, “Things break for Better things to take place”.
And yes it’s not like this always, but yes I was talking about those some exceptional cases in life ..!!

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