Love Yourself :*

Sometimes in our day to day lives we get so used to doing the same things everyday and that's when we fail to realise that they are not habit's , they start becoming a part of our life. But sometimes what happens at our end is not the story on the other end always. The one big mistake that we make in life is making definitions of how things should be like, how people should be like because in the end perception differs from person to person. Taking a simple example if I can see a glass half-full, you might end up seeing the same glass as half empty , so when we make clear definitions about the things we had, the things we have or things we want its not possible for someone else to understand it exactly the way we wanted them to. Sometimes we don't use the correct words, the correct tone, the correct time and sometimes we don't take the pains at all to explain what's going around in our mind. I am definitely not someone easily vulnerable but once I am into something or someone I am my 100%. I might not be the most blessed soul around but I was always happy with what ever came to me, though this never meant I din't desire for more but I tried to preserve anything or everything that I had with me till the end. The new-comings for me never lead to old-endings. But I made mistakes like everyone else but mine were big, mistakes of being impatient , illogical and silly. Using all the wrong words at the wrong times, for instance I had forgotten who I was, because I started seeing myself as a mistake, I put myself into a situation where everything I did in the past appeared as a mistake to me. But I guess on diwali I realised that I was acting stupid because I had started to view myself from someone's perception, I had forgotten why I did all those things that were stated as my mistakes . I simply forgot all those things that are now mistakes is what I am for real. The purpose behind all of those was effortless and natural I did that because I felt like doing them.

So this is what happens to many of us. When things don't work our way, or we fail to accept changes we start blaming ourselves for everything that happens around but that's not the case, it's that time when you need to give yourself a reality check of who you are. And once guilt-free its easier to understand things, be patient, and wait for the right things to happen, once we stop playing the blame game with our selves we automatically start enjoying the little nuances of life. We have to understand the nothing on earth is steady, everything is variable and if we try to hold an ice cube in our hand all d time , it will soon melt , so its better to leave it in d refrigerator :P bad example I know but nothing else just came to mind.

If you want something that is wrong according to others its okay, others don't always like what we do and not to forget even we don't like everything they do. But maturity is in looking beyond the imperfections in thing's and people, its about accepting everything the way it is, its about taking one thing at a time, its about enjoying whatever comes to us without stopping to try and get what we want. Because in the end its your life ...LIVE FREE ... Treat ur soul, gift ur spirts and love the person you are . No one loves you better than u..And in the end it is going to be a happpy story .(if its nt what it ment to be, its not the ending) ....XOXOX....:D